How I opened up to loving touch ❤️‍🔥

I didn’t always use to love touch as much as I do now. When my bf touched me, I shied away.

Secretly, I loved when he occasionally caressed & scratched my back 💞

My body would tingle. 

But then I’d move away…

You know why?

Because I associated touch with s/x.

And I wasn’t ready for it at that moment. I didn’t know how to explore the different flavors of intimacy or even how to ask for that. 

I didn’t know that my being froze and acted avoidant, because my system wasn’t ready for more. That I needed to know that I could relax. That we would go step by step. That he would care for me. Take charge. And love me up. 

I didn’t know there was a different pathway for women than for men. 

🤯

And now. 10 years later. Oh, how things have shifted. I feel so relaxed in knowing that I can ask for what I want. 

For what I desire.

To feel fully open and vibrate. 

Invite him closer. 

Pause. 

Switch 🤩

Get turned on. 

And I would love for you to discover and own these different pathways too 🥰🙌🏼

Love, 
Yani

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